Do you let a persons looks affect the way you react to the things that they do ?


I'm asking cause i just realized today that i do this when it comes to females.. I went to Dunken Dounts to get a Mango Coolata ... so i'm waitting inline and the super fine gilr is working there today ... so shes the one that takes my order... and ask her for a Mango Coolata.. and stair hard at her as shes asking me if i want anything else .. So a look at the o so fine body as she makes my drink ...and this girl has the wiggle she does when shes pouring the drinks.. i didn't notice she was making what i didn't ask for.... then when she hands it to me i'm looking deep into her eyes and put the straw in the dink take a sip as i hand her the 20 ... then is hits me.. and i tell her this isn't what i orderd .. the guy next to her gives her the dirties look in the world... and i look at her then the drink ... and as shes saying thats the coolata u asked for...and she bites her bottom lip ...i give her the LL .... and say ok.. and walk out.... after the guy next to her hands me my change...

Honestly, yes i've done that before

girls know that they can get away with murder, if they are cute. they try to use this against us all the time.

My friend whos a waitress does the same thing. Terrible waitress but gorgeous, got like 250 bucks in 6 hrs today. Insane.

And, I do what you asked about to an extent - I'll let it slide more easily, but I don't quite do the dumbfounded deal you did >>

hahah girls think they can get away wiht anything most of them can cause most guys are horny freaks lol thast y if i was a girl i woul dbe a stripper lol shti im wast thinkin about being a stripper now lol make madd ass $$$$$

ive noticed if ur not a lil puss about it, and u dont treat them like a queen but u still flirt they like that andu ahve a better chance with em. gotta give em a hard time but flirt at the same time! u guys dont know nothin! lol jk

Teach us romeo.

-Supersprynt+May 8, 2005 - 8:48 PM

I agree with rockstar 100%. Girls like jerks.

-lagos+May 8, 2005 - 5:38 PM

well that just sucks for the rest of us girls who arent cute. We actually have to do our jobs.

-946thGenGT+May 8, 2005 - 8:22 PM

not all girls like jerks

to be fair, it's the guys fault that girls can get away with murder, because, HI, we let them... that said, who can blame someone smart enough to use that to their advantage?

I definetly use the "cute look" to get away with things - maybe thats why i have 2 sweatshirts, fleece pants, white gold ring, coronoa hat etc! I tell them they will get it back but i just pull my cute act :-D

I'm smart enough to see through girls that think they can get away with things because they're hot / think they're hot, I say that because the most physicaly attractive girls I know go to bars for free, know why? Because they prey on horn-dog leg humpin' guys, so gentlemen, I say let the girls but US a drink for once >>

when you're a cold hearted bastard like me, the cute look gets you nothing.... that said, I'm a sucker for a good smile. >>

Ive gone to the club and bought guys drinks. I dont liek guys buying me drinks cuz u never know what can happen when some random guy is getting u a drink! Plus i like to come off as a balla too ;-)

most all of us guys are guilty of that at some point, I know I try not to get pawned into acceptance by good looks.

besides you should take that as a big complament, it sounds as if she was to focused on you she compleatly spaced about the drink. it means she probibly liked you, or you looks.

nope I dont and boy does it piss them off heh then again Im still single so maybe this has something to do with it

hey nat, how have gone to clubs and bought guys drinks b4? i thought u were only 19. lol and i didnt say be a jerk... see you dont totaly kno what i mean. i have to be nice, cocky. confident. idk im not gona explain my self but w/e it is between my look the way i act how i joke or what. something working for me lol

my ex room mate worked at a bar in seattle and got to know a lot of bouncers so as long as i walked in with her in a club we got VIP teatment and what not - too bad were not friends now :-(

too bad u dont live closer to me

whys that?

It also depends on where you live, in Orlando there were good looking girls everywhere so they aren't as stuck up about image, around Charlotte though you need a friggin 6 digit income (or look like you have one, that's what most guys do around here) to get a hot one, you can treat them like crap all day long as long as you give them what they want. I personally can't stand it when a guy treats a girl like crap, i'm blunt but i'm no king s***. I will say if you stand there with your finger up your a** you'll get no where though. Look at her, give her a s*** eating grin (maybe that works for me), and just flirt a little like rockstar said it works. Also a lot of girls like the game, if she tries to lead you on play a little and give her what she wants, then when she thinks she has you wrapped let go a little and she'll come after you, it's worked for me quite a few times.

^^^ so true so true

make us think we have u then let go a bit and we will chase you

hmm maybe thats what im doing wrong. I don't like to lead people on, if im interested you'll know. Personally i hate all that cat and mouse ****, its a waste of time.

I dont mean to do it - just a natural thing... I dont lead a guy on much.

I could never do what some guys ive dated do

kiss her and what not when im not really feeling her.

I can not get intimate at all with someone if im not liking ya

If I don't plan on dating them I let them know prior to anything, if they stay they stay, i'm blunt so i'll let a girl know what I feel. I got busted one time lying, I played a girl for two weeks and it wasn't worth it when I got caught. They knew I screwed up and felt bad so they forgave me, i'm to old to get in the player game anyway, i'll leave it to the guys that have been practicing since they were 12, lol. Another thing is don't be arogant, if you go in with an ego, you'll most likely get shot down, go in a few more times until she can tell you'll be a regular and after 3-4 times order something you have to wait on and start a conversation up, ask a few questions (not what's your name if she has a name tag or HOW U DOIN) or make a comment/complement if she responds with more than one word you broke the ice. If you fail to break the ice then leave and try again later, if you do break the ice don't directly jump into asking her out just talk, eventually she'll trust you a little better and then you can indirectly find out if she's single. These are the first few steps into a girls pan...I mean heart, j/k. >>