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#31

-lagos+May 18, 2005 - 12:55 PM

QUOTE(lagos @ May 18, 2005 - 12:55 PM)

no nat, you are right the girl is playing me for a fool. trust me, this is the end for me. i dont ever want to speak to her again.

but here is something i dont understand. how a girl spend so much time playing a guy and not fall in love? i mean, you can keep telling somone how special they are, going out on dates, etc... for so long, but after a few years you would think that your game would backfire on you and you would end up loving the guy too, right ?
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shes an emotional vampire, she uses you for emotional support

95gtschick

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-BlackCelicaGT94+May 18, 2005 - 12:39 PM

QUOTE(BlackCelicaGT94 @ May 18, 2005 - 12:39 PM)

-Mike+May 18, 2005 - 1:31 AM

QUOTE(Mike @ May 18, 2005 - 1:31 AM)

I feel for you man, I really do, but listen, you have to get yourself together and burn some bridges!! that's what i did to my dumb b*tch ex

i know you still love her and whatnot, but you wont in 5-6months, so burn them bridges!!

what i did was after she did almost the exact same thing to me i took her out for a ride in my friends ram1500, after driving into a weired part of the city i pretended like i thought the rear right tire was flat, so i asked her to go out and check the tire while i stayed in the car and got the pressure checker, while she went out and looked, i shifted the truck into RWD and did a nice big burnout and shot up some nice gravel in her slut face, then i sped off leaving her stranded at 1am in the far reaches of toronto

all my guy friends love the story
all my girl friends hate it

don't attempt unless you're an a@@hole like me though..

but to be more serious.. time heals all wounds
keep yourself busy, try not to dwell on it, you'll be fine man >

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Natalie i'm with you on this one. That is truly the rudest, stupidest thing i've heard, for me... well, i've never played "games" with a guy. i've only had 2 boyfriend's in my life, the first one broke up with me, the second one... i'm still with, after 4 years. i just can't bring myself to be mean to a guy... take care lagos..

Mike

#33

-BlackCelicaGT94+May 18, 2005 - 1:05 PM

QUOTE(BlackCelicaGT94 @ May 18, 2005 - 1:05 PM)

or hit 19 and wonder why all the guys are A-holes :-D
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guys are only a@@holes to ugly girls anyway

BlackCelicaGT94

#34

we only play games with ugly guys! :-D

oh and if a guy i was dating ever took me out for a drive in a weird part of town at 1am and said oh i think the tire might be F'd up will u get out and check id look at him and be excuse me?!

u do not ditch a girl in a weird part of town at 1am or even tell her to check ur car for u! pathetic!

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: May 18, 2005 - 5:22 PM

Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City

jgreening

#35

-Supersprynt+May 18, 2005 - 2:40 PM

QUOTE(Supersprynt @ May 18, 2005 - 2:40 PM)

-BlackCelicaGT94+May 18, 2005 - 2:57 PM

QUOTE(BlackCelicaGT94 @ May 18, 2005 - 2:57 PM)

-Supersprynt+May 18, 2005 - 11:43 AM

QUOTE(Supersprynt @ May 18, 2005 - 11:43 AM)

-BlackCelicaGT94+May 18, 2005 - 1:37 PM

QUOTE(BlackCelicaGT94 @ May 18, 2005 - 1:37 PM)

Shes feeding u lies..shes trying to keep the friendship where its at and where its been.

Shes just not that into you! if she really loved u or wanted to try with u then she wouldnt care about Jamie!
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Well lets over use this "he/she is just not that into you." This is definately not a case for that because SHE keeps coming to HIM so no thats just, not the case.
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im a girl and i think i can reply to lagos situation a bit better considering im a girl who plays games.
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Being a girl doesnt mean a damn thing when it comes to advice. Both men and women play games. However, your changing the subject. The point is, its not a case of "she's just not into you" the latest relationship fad sweeping the nation. Someone who is "just not into you" doesnt do what she's doing. Its a long term relationship, they both have feelings for eachother.
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Erik:

I agree with Natalie on this one (thats twice now). The girl is not into Art, period. She likes him as a friend and has fun messing around with him a bit but she is not into him in the sense of "having him as her boyfriend". She is the type of girl that keeps a guy on the line in hopes of someone better coming along. Its complete bullsh1t. Any "feelings" she does have do not add up to her being willing to give up other potential guys. She's just not that into him.

Jay.

QUOTE(lagos @ Jul 10, 2006 - 1:55 PM) [snapback]454118[/snapback]i know your trying to do the right thing for your motor, but this is one of those times where you should just trust the guys who have had their swaps for a while and have done a ton of research into this.

Ale_lock

#36

I haven't read the entire thread but I read your first post, and yeah, women are just as confused as guys, I went through the same situation twice where some dude out of nowhre comes up and shyt goes downhill, when the second one occured, I just cut her off.

lagos

#37

-BlackCelicaGT94+May 18, 2005 - 5:20 PM

QUOTE(BlackCelicaGT94 @ May 18, 2005 - 5:20 PM)

we only play games with ugly guys! :-D
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i dont think thats true at all. girls are all about dramma 24/7 with everyone they meet.

i think jay and nat are right, just not 100%.

the girl was very into me. you could see it on her face, hear it in her voice, even her closest friends would tell me. i mean, this is not like i was just her friend and got the wrong idea. i had a real realationship with her. i was even her offical boyfrined for about a year when we first met....and you know how that ended? i dumped her for another girl! after that we became friends and still kept the physical part of the realationship going for on and off over the years.

the problem is that she never fell in love with me. over the years her feeling for me changed from someone special, to the guy she dosnt have to pay attention to, because he will always be around. so over time she lost intrest and just draged it out for the benefits she would get out of the friendship

This post has been edited by lagos: May 18, 2005 - 6:06 PM

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BlackCelicaGT94

#38

i was kidding about playing games with ugly guys cuz that guy said that guys are only a-holes to ugly girls

Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City

Mike

#39

-BlackCelicaGT94+May 18, 2005 - 3:20 PM

QUOTE(BlackCelicaGT94 @ May 18, 2005 - 3:20 PM)

we only play games with ugly guys! :-D

oh and if a guy i was dating ever took me out for a drive in a weird part of town at 1am and said oh i think the tire might be F'd up will u get out and check id look at him and be excuse me?!

u do not ditch a girl in a weird part of town at 1am or even tell her to check ur car for u! pathetic!
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I don't know what's worse
being called pathetic
or being called pathetic by you

it's called getting even, and you know what? It will probably happen to you some day

johnsonius_87

#40

im not much at given advice.. all i can say is hang in there & things will eventually get better.. even though probably everything you do, say, everywhere you go, songs you hear, movies you watch.. remind you of her. ive only had one b/f & he broke up w/ me 2 wks ago. the first wk was hard. we're still friends & ive hung out w/ him (in a group) a few times since then, but ppl we're both friends still tell me he talks about me alot & i still care about him. so i dont understand why he ended it. he says we might work things out later & get back together sometime.. but if he still cares about me & loves me like he says then what was the point in breaking up w/ me?! he has his reasons.. he's goin to texas & doesnt know how long he'll be gone.. then he'll be working full time outta town, etc.. but still.. i would be willing to make things work out.. anyway, sry for changing the subj, but i sorta understand where ur comin from.. good luck. >

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Digndoug

#41

I think your last comment was kinda out of line, yes she is making a bigggg mistake.. buttt... i wouldnt go as far as saying you never want to talk to her again..

dustin15brown

#42

update us lagos

lagos

#43

Digndoug,

i have not spoken to her since and i dont plan to. here is why...

i did a lot for this girl over the years. she also always knew i was in love with her and kind of used that to her advantage. she even told my sister once, that she just dates other guys for the fun of it, but she would really love to marry me someday.

the last time we talked, she told me that she would go out with me, but she didnt want to miss out on this guy she just met. this was the end point for me where i realized that if some guy she barely knows is more important, then i have totally wasted my time with her. i started to feel that she never loved me and only did and said what i needed to hear, just so that i would be a part of her life the way i had been all these years. any girl that can do that to a guy for so long, and know the feelings at stake, is not worth my time. if i keep talking to her, she will just pull the same **** again for years. i would hate to marry her and find out she cheated on me or something. so its best to walk away now for good.

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Digndoug

#44

-lagos+May 20, 2005 - 1:06 AM

QUOTE(lagos @ May 20, 2005 - 1:06 AM)

Digndoug,

i have not spoken to her since and i dont plan to. here is why...

i did a lot for this girl over the years. she also always knew i was in love with her and kind of used that to her advantage. she even told my sister once, that she just dates other guys for the fun of it, but she would really love to marry me someday.

the last time we talked, she told me that she would go out with me, but she didnt want to miss out on this guy she just met. this was the end point for me where i realized that if some guy she barely knows is more important, then i have totally wasted my time with her. i started to feel that she never loved me and only did and said what i needed to hear, just so that i would be a part of her life the way i had been all these years. any girl that can do that to a guy for so long, and know the feelings at stake, is not worth my time. if i keep talking to her, she will just pull the same **** again for years. i would hate to marry her and find out she cheated on me or something. so its best to walk away now for good.
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I kinda understand.. That kinda seemed like me an my ex.. she basicaly broke up with me.. then Im assuming, an was told, but she denied, that she had been with another guy, then tried to come back into my life. Like try to hang with me and do the norm stuff we would allways do. I did it for a week then thought what am i doing an said **** it.. I spoke to her, but kept it real brief.. an she felt like **** every time.. that was my point.

Women are screwd up ... ALL WOMEN most get caught up in there lil game an get screwed liek your friend..

Sorry bro, but you love once you will love again. It takes Balls to do what your doing.

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