-BlackCelicaGT94+May 25, 2005 - 5:28 PM


my friends' opinions and thoughts matter. i talk to them when i have problems. i'm not going to bottle it up. no matter what the topic is. i decide whose business i make my own business. if it could be left between me and her, that'd be one thing, but she's too busy with her boyfriend to talk to me ever, and even if she wasn't, i don't wanna talk to her about it anymore, beause it hurts too much. so where's that leave me? if i were to go my entire life without talking about situations i'm in that involve other people, then i would be a mute. that is the most mindless concept ever. anyway, he is none of the above, therefore, his opinion doesn't matter. hense me saying that.

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back to the general long distance topic. if anything after this is posted about mine and jen's particular LD "relationship"(bc we were never an 'item'), then i will suggest to the management that it be deleted. to keep that from happening, don't even bother anymore, and let it all go. things happened, mistakes were made, and we're all who we are today because of it. no more talk, unless it's of generalized, "are LD relationships worth it". thank you.

This post has been edited by Mynzeyes: May 25, 2005 - 6:39 PM

He is right guys, this thread got waaay off topic...I was just trying to get some experiences with LD relationships and this friggin board wars errupts...

Apparently it happened in the past, and it is just that...the past. Leave it be, and if they still have a standing disagreement, let them PM or IM it out themselves...not in public

But anyways >> anymore advice?

-Mynzeyes+May 25, 2005 - 10:20 PM

Sorry, i didnt look well and thought that it was you making the post john, i appologize. But yes, this is all verrrry of topic.

To remind everyone: LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS: DO THEY WORK?

Sorry to say but know they don't work... they might for a while... but in the long run.. the main part of a relationship is gone in a longdistance ... the togetherness

^^ makes sense, but not jsut any LD relationship...read my first post..

Im going to see her about 6 days out of the 30 a month plus fall/winter/spring/summer breaks

I think we have a very fair chance of staying together...

They just don't work.

-CheesyLobster+May 25, 2005 - 10:48 PM

understandable. i accept. sorry if i was rude. >>.

answer: only if people can say: "they were crazy about each other.."

This post has been edited by Mynzeyes: May 25, 2005 - 11:45 PM

well i had a relation kinda like in the frist post... and it just didn't work ... we just missed each other so much that we ended up in the arms of other people... when u want to be with someone.. yea u can love them and care about them but when ur young and some one shows u the attention u want from the person u want to be with .. u start to see the things u miss in another person and then u sike ur self into beliving its ok cause ur just using that person to ease the hurt of not being with the one u love.. .. young people and long distance doesn't work ... sorry but its the truth ..

-Mynzeyes+May 26, 2005 - 4:43 AM

i agree, thats almost a perfect way to put it.

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years, there is no doubt in my mind that she is the one for me. After about 14 months of going out, we both went to seperate colleges, her's in Chicago, and mine in Southeast Missouri - thats 8hrs of driving. We did that for a year and a half... let me tell you now that it is DAMN hard, and at times might not seem worth it... but in the long run it can be great. Now she transfered to my school and things are much better, but we still made the distance thing work.

Also - if you do the distance thing, it might be rare... but the sex is awesome when it happens.