Can someone that has a manual st take a pic of their starter relay for me. I'm curious how many pins it has and how many wires come out the back of it. I have an auto and I only have 3 wires that come out of it, and the pins are number 1, 2,3, and 5 instead of 1,2,3,4.

Here's a couple diagrams for you from the BGB. The relays look the same.