I started dating this girl about a week ago and Tuesday night I had a dream where we were together and her mom was trying to make here move away and there was nothing I could do about it. so I was pleading with them both to let her stay, because I didn't want to let her go. (thats the jist of my dream) When I woke up I called her (7:00 a.m.) and told her what I was thinking and about my dream. after we got done talking, I felt horrible, like I scared her alittle. like I may have scared her away. I called back about noon, and apologized profuosly(spelling) telling her that I was still caught up in the dream and that I want things to be as they were before I called the first time. she said of course, but it just seems different. She is great, fun to be around and I just don't want to lose her this way. but what really got me scared is that on her aol profile it used to say "involved with a macho celica boi" now it says "involved with a Gt-Four celica boi" and one of my friends has a 93' all trac.(gt-four) I am so afraid right now and I need help on how to make things right again. any advice is gladly appreciated. thank you in advance for your responses.

Just let it go..stop worrying cuz the more you worry to her the more youll push her away. Youve only been dating a week so i mean if she is seeing someone else then oh well. Better to have this happen now then down the line

but for the time being just enjoy the holiday today and let it go! Hard to do but something ur gonna have to do. Like i said the more you push yourself on her the more she will push away from you

face the facts buddy....its time to buy a GT-Four! lol

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^agreed!
I guess the visual replica isn't enough. guess it's time to start stacking paper.

a week? and you're stressing out???? yikes.. give her some space maybe, if it's meant to be, it'll happen, you can't force anything to happen.

treat her like dirt
she'll stick to you like mud

that doesn't work treating a girl like dirt they will probably end up hating you.

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Yeah... If a guy treated me like I was nothin but sh*t to him i'd dump his ass so quick he wouldnt know what hit him...


Seems like to me youve been crowding her in a way... Give her space, dont be spilling out your apologies like its the end of the world becase in a relationship that's only lasted that short amount of time, that can be creepy to a girl... Ive had a bf who was like that to me and it made me feel uncomfortble... But that was just me... could be different in your case...

But just give her space, cuz right now, shes still getting comfortable getting to know you, everything is starting to oen up... Just keep your cool....

This post has been edited by CelicaBuddy: Nov 24, 2005 - 10:28 PM

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don't treat them like total dirt
just don't be so damn obsessed with them and don't put them on a pedestal

I've been with my gf for 6months and she's got to be one of the 5 hottest girls I've ever met and my game plan has been working just fine thank you

It's simple, do as i say and you'll be in there like swimwear. Ok, your "friend" needs his #ss kicked. If he was your friend, he wouldnt be takin your girlfriend! So just go find him and straight lay a hurtin on him. And make sure she's watchin . Next, steal his car and your g/f back and ride off in the sunset. Its brilliant! Chicks dig tough guys with hairdryers on their celica. Good luck

Hmmm if she is hanging out w/ another dude because you had a dream about her then....she isnt worth ur time. A dream is a dream....& a slut is a slut not sayin she is a slut! But sounds like she gets around ehhh? Or tries to play games w/ guys!!

Girls that play games = no Good!

Really though...I'd go talk to her & see whats up. If she is dating someone else then...its time to move on!!

well, i talked to her last night and she says that she doesn't want any distance. The thing is, she IS moving. at the beginning of next year. she wants to spend as much time together as possible, before she moves. i told her that i understood everything, and that i just want her to be happy. i know that the relationship will end when she moves. i just hope we will keep in touch and maybe someday get back together. but for now, everything seems to be ok. i just have to face the fact i won't see her for a long while. thank ya'll for all of ya'lls input. it has helped alot. man things just keep getting worse for me. Is God punishing me for something?

now that your girl problems are cleared up, focus on the important stuff, such as getting a GT-FOUR.

evolution imports had one in florida. I WANT IT SOOOOOO BAD! but i don't have 19 grand. ARG!

19k? whoa, must have been nice. Well hope everything works out with her. Long distance relationships dont work. Trust me.

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i've been lookin into that one, this decemeber I get my end of the year bonus which I might use to invest into that GT-FOUR ^_^

thats a shame to hear about that man i'm having girl problems too. I know chat to chicks that are into cars and things I like. You will find another girl soon. Get that gt4 man chicks dig turbos lol.

::UPDATE ON MY SITUATION::

well I went out with her again on saturday and we hung out for a while until we went to shreve city(place where imports hang out). no one was there so she was like "well, i'm gonna go see my friend Joel...so you can do whatever you want to." this was just after i bought her some boots she wanted. so i get mad. and told her that she is just using me. and that if she wants to talk, then call but if not then thats cool too. so i haven't talked to her today, and frankly i'm kinda glad. no more bull****. so i am just gonna hang with redlineadrenalin (my car club) (www.redlineadrenalin.com) wOOt!!! and all of ya'll are right by the way. another one will come along. thanks again guys and girls. i appreciate it. again. love ya'll! check out my car on the club website. i think it is the best looking one there. damn high school girls!

YOU BOUGHT HER BOOTS?! after a week? wtf! girls like that are lame! dont ever buy things for a girl before a month unless its a date! i hate girls like that!

and if u put it on ur debit card then umm go to ur bank and say she jacked ur card and report her for theft! ok well maybe thats a bit extreme but be done with her! :-) glad ur happy that you didnt talk to her today! MOVE ON! :-)

This post has been edited by BlackCelicaGT94: Nov 27, 2005 - 10:26 PM

Don't go out with high school girls whiny immature little bitches that like to use guys how old are you? I am 19 and I would never go out with a high school girl

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Yeah its amazing what a year or two out of HS makes. The maturity level increases exponentially.

But yeah lesson learned, dont buy someone your dating anything in the first month or 2 unless its their birthday or christmas. And lesson two keep those types of dreams to yourself until you are way more involved..like 5 or 6 months.

Yeah i know right. bad mistake. well it's done now. so back to dumping money in the celica!

good on ya bro

ok, I'm really sorry if this is mean, but you just need some experience with women. Granted I am only 21, but alot of this stuff is just common sense. You bought her boots? I'm sorry, but you should easily recognize that the second she asked you for the boots(did she ask for them?) she was testing your level of obsession. Once she got you to buy the boots, it just re-enforces her idea that she is worth so much to you that she can get you to do anything. You're her little bitch. You treated her to well and she at least got away with a new pair of boots and a little piece of your heart.

Will you buy me some boots? it's getting cold out here, and I'm sure I deserve a pair better than that shifty biatch.

general rule of thumb
treat the girls you're interested in, like you're not interested in them and treat the girls you're not interested in, like you're interested in them. You'll find you'll have alot more girls willing to put forth more effort into what ever relationship you want to pursue.

I think maybe we need a new forum related to relationship problems, then get some doctor phil wanna-be to moderate it.

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Dr. Phil couldn't have said it better himself my friend
I totally agree

I'm secretly a Dr. Phil wanna-be psych major

Buying her presents reminds me of the game called Fable. (If you aren't happy with her when she marries you.....get her to follow you into the woods and kill her......) LOL I love that game!

make sure you find a nice girl that suits you and has the same interests eg music, sports, cars whatever make sure you are suited and make sure you go out with a chick who you can trust not just one that wants you for your car

yes, similar interests are a must. My current g/f seems to have the other half of my brain, she thinks exactly the way I do and we have the same interests. It's actually kindof weird, sometimes, we will match clothes without meaning to. She'll come over wearing the same color stuff as me, even if I hadn't seen her all day, it's freaky.