ok so heres my situation and a little history. Resently me and my ex have broken up after a 2 year relationship, since the split, i've been looking for some new friends and a few girls to talk to and hang out with. BEFORE the relatiopnship I used to be able to approach almost any girl and atleast be able to have a decent conversation with them. Im not the sexiest guy ever, but I have a good personality. Anywho, lately I've been looking around and even when a girl approachs ME, I seem to get shy and have nothing to say. What the hell is wrong with me? Now I've been at the mall lately and there are TONS of girls, and even at work, it just seems like I forgot how to 'flirt' with them. All I've been able to get out lately was "you know you have gorgious green eyes." It worked for the most part, except I forgot to ask for her # and this was in a busy mall about 30 mins away from me, so the chances of me seeing her again are worse than winning the lotery 5 times in a row. Anywho, im just venting and trying to find out wth is wrong with me. Any advice, comments, questions, concerns, rude remarks, hate mail and other forms of communication are appriciated.

ouch......you lost your game......

holy **** doctor evil just ran off with your MOJO austin!

nah i'm just playin bro, but hrmm i'm with you after a "long" relationship its a pain in the arse to get back into "the game" and get your flirting back up to par...
just don't try and force anything out and try too hard i say just go with the flow and ummm if all else fails practice in the mirror

ok heres what ya do, go somewhere u never been, so no one knows who you are, and just let loose, talk to literally every girl u see, **id advise watch the bf's** but seriously jus say f**k it and go for it, no one knows who you are so its no big deal and if worse came to worse hop in the one thing that loves ya the most *celica* and leave

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f*ck your a genious, cant believe I didnt think of that. See I knew I posted on here for a reason.

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thats right and dont forget it, haha yea simple ideas go a long way

dude, the same **** happen to my buddy, was in a 3 year relationship, lost any ability he had to approach the females. Go here, www.askmen.com, brilliant website. It's all a matter of confidence, If you beleive your the best thing for that girl, she'll notice it in the way you talk and act around her. You'll be ****in fat bitches in no time!


How's it taste motha f*cka!

This post has been edited by Tech9ine: Dec 14, 2005 - 9:12 PM

few tips.. Talk to women like you dont care. Talk to them like there a person, and your not just trying to F**K them. Go out and talk to anyone that seems intrresting and ask them to hang out sometime. to be able to meet women, you got to be able to meet anyone. **** even go find some new friends, hang out with dif people.

The other thing is. If you have trouble flirting and talking with hot or atractive women, start with the not-so hot or atractive. Yeah they might like you, but maybe they have hot friends.

wow...

Your gun shy.

start talking to girls that you're not interested in to gain confidence. build up your social skills with girls that are your friend

This post has been edited by Jdog1385: Dec 15, 2005 - 12:10 AM

ya ima try that, funny thing is I was NEVER shy. I used to talk to about half the girls at my school and probably dated 1/3rd of them when I was still in highschool. But she I guess I will try that, whats the worst thing that can happen? Her boyfriend tries to kick my ass and I pull a 187 on his ass, llolololol

Ok maybe I'm way off here, but no other woman has posted in here yet.I think suggesting flirting with unattractive girls and working your way up to attractive girls is a completely ****ed up theory. If some guy acted interested in me as “practice” I’d be pretty pissed off. I can understand just flirting that’s fine, but the whole talking to not to attractive girls because they could have hot friends is ****ed up. I’ve had that done to me before and it’s not a great feeling. You just need to not look at women as if they are different people. 90% of the time we are just as shy and freaked out as you are. Just don’t turn into one of those guys who thinks that they are gods gift to women. ok I’m done ranting.

Edit cause i can't spell.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Dec 17, 2005 - 8:59 PM

Sounds like me bro I really like this girl I speak on the phone to and I run outta things to say and I get all shy it pisses me off ever since that other chick broke up with me that was my friend for a while first I can't really speak to chicks well and I can't phone them anymore I want to though.

whoa whoa whoa, phone calls shouldnt last more then 10 minutes if your not already dating her. Girls are ****ed up man, they need you to be a challenge. And if your always available, I.E. available to talk for so long that you run out of things to say, thats not very chalenging. Also, if you run out of things to say, start asking questions. Let them do some talking. Ask anything, just so long as its not obviously filler, and you've gotta be interested in their answer.

This post has been edited by Tech9ine: Dec 14, 2005 - 9:15 PM

I don't know anything about this subject, I was with the same girl for 13 years. Afterwards
I fell for the first girl I met and was with her for 4 years. Be ur self, don't waste time trying
to be something ur not or playing headgames with someone you love. It just wastes time.
Something we all seem to take for granted. But life is shorter than you think.

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yea i agree. but it doesnt hurt to talk to girls that your not interested in...doesnt mean that they're ugly or anything but they could just be your friend.

im getting alot more replys than I thought, lol this is a good thing so far. More reply's from the ladies would also help but ya this weekend im just gonna try all day until I can find someone thats cool to talk to.

you are trying too hard

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Thats a really good one. The ones you don't like or know that are already married are the best ones to talk too cause they are actually more talkative and know that your not hitting on them. The ones that are still single and sexy looking will actually make you more shy and unrelaxed when u are talking to them cause you know u like them and want to make an impression. The ones u don't care are like u don't care wat u say to them.