ok me and the g/f(seriously) were able to take out my old player and put the new one in. Heres my question: i have a system and the only wire i have left to connect to the cd player itself the amp wire, and the only open wire that is left is blue/white and labeled "system remote control". Now is that the right wire to connect it to or is it a different one. The wire is was connected to on the old cd player was blue so Im thinking thats the right one since no other wires were left open. Am I right ?

blue is remote on both ends, so yes

yup that was it thanks mang