Listen, my ex girlfriend and I broke up about 10 months ago but we have to be friends because all of my friends are her friends too since we started hanging out with them when we dated. Anyhow, she calls me and wants to talk to me like we are still together but when i see her in person and i make a move or something she totally shuts me down saying that it wouldnt work out. Ive called her out before but this shiz stuff but it still occurs. what to do.

tell her to make up her mind
you guys can be friends with the same people and just not talk to each other... do that

Girls suck. Bottom line. Im turning gay. Any of you hott studs wanna play?

tell her straight up, we can either make this work or not, you cant have the best of both worlds (or as most people like to say 'have your cake and eat it too') it'll be best for you and her

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lol, well said. *raises hand*

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does this mean zacharina is coming out to play cause if so.....i'm in

gayfers.

boys suck too, you know.

whatever! *flamy voice* ur just jealous.

Wait, you dont specify what kind of talk over the phone. You may just be misreading her. (Its hard to read em anyway). If you want less bull****, get a girl thats not a rich, priss, trophy wife. Theyre fun but they always end up pissing me off.

Oh thuper duper!

Don't go for her- just ignore those types of advances on the phone. She wants the benefits (which for a lot of chicks just include some kinda close friend or something) without the costs (having to put up with you in public). The relationships that are the breakup-get together- breakup- get together- breakup type rarely work, and just put you through too much hell. Find someone outside the group of friends. I'm sure there are plenty of chicks that would go for a guy with a hot car like yours.

Good luck.

dont talk to her on the phone. you broke up...its over... if you see her in person with your group of friends then thats fine, but it dont mean you have to be buddy buddy with her.

girls like to keep guys around just in case no other guy wants them. they are very insecure about being alone in life.

This post has been edited by lagos: Jun 6, 2006 - 11:24 AM

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well said.

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+1.



Also, you're a fool for trying to 'make a move' on an x-girlfriend. Don't let her talk to you like that on the phone, and as lagos stated, don't talk to her on the phone at all.

When I broke up with my first gf, a few of my friends hung out with her. I let them go. Now, present friends hang out with her too, but talk shxt about her behind her back. I call them out on it, and when they go around her, I don't go along. I've seen her once in the past year or so, and she didn't say a word to me, and I didn't say a word to her. We don't hate each other, it's just like we're strangers again.

I personally think if nothing's happened in 10 months, and you are around each other quite a bit, you need to look into other alternatives. Don't sell yourself short, and keep persuing the manipulative girl. She's trying to keep you just close enough to still have control. As lagos said, just in case.

-John-

edit: nevermind.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Jun 6, 2006 - 12:48 PM

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True that.. Women are ****ign nutts... Im ready to be single again.. wait.. I think I just may work on that.. lol

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wow, and i thought it was tough in school

drama, lama... your mama... lol



This post has been edited by XS4lv1Truch0x: Jun 7, 2006 - 10:07 PM

details details, how did the story end? you guys still talk or what?

Seems like she is immature plain and simple. She likes knowing that she can control you, and that's about all she likes. Better leave her soon and find a girl that makes you happy!

This is the opportune time to screw her best friend.

Oh, and be a dick to her, chicks love that.

With any luck you can pull out of this siutaition as sex buddies without all the emotional crap involved, and ideally, isn't that the goal, anyhow?

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a site to get you along on your way.

FYI: I've seen these threads going before and Lagos is usually the only one who gets it. Listen to him.

This post has been edited by creamed_corn: Jun 21, 2006 - 10:38 PM

all you are is a dick in a glass case to her..."break glass in case of emergency"