ya you have good reasons for tryin to hang in there. And like I said about the military, just because it changes people doesnt mean its bad, it also can be for the better (and usaully is) And since your going back to school that will definatly help, because right now you need to worry about school. Knowledge is forever (until you get old, lol) boyfriends, usaully arent... when hes down, focus on the time that hes there, not about what hes been doing. When he comes back hes gonna have a few stories to tell but hes really interested in you, so try to stay away from the "what did you do, where did you go" questions. Anywho, I wish the best of luck to you guys and if you have any other questions (relationship related or not) feel free to ask :-D or PM like a few others did who didnt want there bussiness posted on the internet, you secrets are safe with me! lol
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sorry I didnt reply to ya, didnt see ur post at the bottom.
this is another pretty simple situation, even tho it doesnt involve girls (much) it involves material possession. The first thing you have to do is decide what do you really want. What makes you really happy? From your first sentence alone I said to myself was "the celica is a highly reliable car, why would you have to blow paycheck after paycheck to fix it." So what I would theoretically suggest is sell the car and buy a decent celica. How much did you buy the current celica for? How much have you dumped into it for repairs? How much would a decent celica cost? Im sure you got the celica pretty cheap, no? Well the old saying still stands "you get what you pay for."IF it was me, I would sell the celica and just buy a reliable one and save your money for something larger (house, condo, or just plain out save your money) but I do understand how you feel, its fun to have a nice car that u can work on. As far as always talking about it around girls, thats just something you have to train yourself on. If you think your going to start talking about your car to them, simply just stop yourself. Now im assuming when you talked about your celica to girls it was on a date or something? Give me an example and I could help ya out more with it. Maybe give you something to say, or just find another way to divert your attention away from the celica.
This post has been edited by bloodrain: Aug 18, 2006 - 9:36 PM
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bloodrain you so crzy
I think this is really good.
The only problem i have is I spend so much on my car just to get it maintenance cause the previous owner did not care for it at all. I spend my whole paycheck just about. After getting all my maint. done i get a hit and run, broken into or one lil thing cause a whole castrophe. I feel like giving up on it. But i dont want to let it go. I'm in love with the car, I adore it so much and its so bad that its a turn off to the girls i talk to now. I was looking around for a mr2 or a rx7, but i just cant seem to let it go. I really need a reliable car right now cuz my job is a 45min drive and i car pool with a guy that listens to gothic death metal @ 6am in the morning. gd. i rather drive myself but i only got 4 gears to work with and i dont wana blow my motor up driving 5k rpm. So iono. What would YOU do? Maybe i should post a couple of pix of whats bad of it.
bloodrain you so crzy
I think this is really good.The only problem i have is I spend so much on my car just to get it maintenance cause the previous owner did not care for it at all. I spend my whole paycheck just about. After getting all my maint. done i get a hit and run, broken into or one lil thing cause a whole castrophe. I feel like giving up on it. But i dont want to let it go. I'm in love with the car, I adore it so much and its so bad that its a turn off to the girls i talk to now. I was looking around for a mr2 or a rx7, but i just cant seem to let it go. I really need a reliable car right now cuz my job is a 45min drive and i car pool with a guy that listens to gothic death metal @ 6am in the morning. gd. i rather drive myself but i only got 4 gears to work with and i dont wana blow my motor up driving 5k rpm. So iono. What would YOU do? Maybe i should post a couple of pix of whats bad of it.
sorry I didnt reply to ya, didnt see ur post at the bottom.
this is another pretty simple situation, even tho it doesnt involve girls (much) it involves material possession. The first thing you have to do is decide what do you really want. What makes you really happy? From your first sentence alone I said to myself was "the celica is a highly reliable car, why would you have to blow paycheck after paycheck to fix it." So what I would theoretically suggest is sell the car and buy a decent celica. How much did you buy the current celica for? How much have you dumped into it for repairs? How much would a decent celica cost? Im sure you got the celica pretty cheap, no? Well the old saying still stands "you get what you pay for."IF it was me, I would sell the celica and just buy a reliable one and save your money for something larger (house, condo, or just plain out save your money) but I do understand how you feel, its fun to have a nice car that u can work on. As far as always talking about it around girls, thats just something you have to train yourself on. If you think your going to start talking about your car to them, simply just stop yourself. Now im assuming when you talked about your celica to girls it was on a date or something? Give me an example and I could help ya out more with it. Maybe give you something to say, or just find another way to divert your attention away from the celica.
This post has been edited by bloodrain: Aug 18, 2006 - 9:36 PM
To live, is to sufferTo survive, thats to find meaning, in the suffering....
With him leaving it's kinda a bonus... Cuz now where doing what we want to get our lives all figured out, and we cant really slow each other down... In my eyes I see it as a positive thing... 
My best friend left for the army after I graduated. She calls me every now and then and its as if nothing really changed. She's got the same old sense of humor, and everything. I think the only thing that's changed about her is that now she's more responsible, WAY more mature, and well serious. But she's still herself... But that's just one person from the military. I dont know what could happen to my boyfriend... But from what Ive seen with my best friend, that would be an added bonus to my boyfriend lol 
I'd even sit down and have lunch with all the army guys... It would be funny cuz me and my best friend would be the only two people in the room not in camo, while the rest of the room (which would be completely packed full) was army guys in uniform... It was not only awkward but it was pretty funny. Whenever I'd get up to like grab something, all eyes were on me... hahaha 
This isnt like her @ all....