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Topic #46419 47 posts Started by Davesceli
Whats the best way to ask a stranger out. Theres this girl at this store that i want to ask out, but i'm not sure the best way to go about it.

I think asking her out to dinner is too much, too soon. What should i do???

Thanks
lol random

well if you've had some form of communication prior to this, thats a start.
girls are all about the confidence so i'd go for it and ask her dude.

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If uve had prior communication then while ur talking with her as normal just be like hey what are you doing tonight? wanna grab somethign to eat?

i would say keep it casual the first time around cuz you dont wanna waste any money if you find out that ur not compatible. then take her to red robin or something and if u click then ask her out to somewhere nicer the second time around

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sure fire way of getting girls: be a dick.

oh the ladies must love you then Erik

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what do you mean by a girl in a store- you went to a store and she works there? have you ever actually talked to her? hmm?

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have u spoken to her prior? other then "whre is said product in the store?" ?

u dont wanna come off like a wierdo creep/stalker, by asking to go out.

maybe ask her when her lunch break is, and possibly offer to take her out for lunch?

idk.
good luck tho either way.

KawiLove
id hate if a guy asked me out on my lunch break cuz i hate my work clothes. id rather be asked out for a time thats after im off work so i can go home and change and get all hot looking for a date :-)

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sure fire way of getting girls: be a dick.

oh the ladies must love you then Erik

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Oh I think you already know the answer to that.

This post has been edited by Supersprynt: Mar 19, 2007 - 12:16 PM

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if you've never spoken then just ask her opinion on something mate, the more random the better!

a big NO to the asking out for dinner thing, only do that if you've been seeing the girl for along time, never make that the first thing you say she'll run a mile.
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sure fire way of getting girls: be a dick.

oh the ladies must love you then Erik

BA ZING!
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Oh I think you already know the answer to that.



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first off, as cliche as this may sound, be yourself, talk 2 her and ask her open ended questions that give her a chance 2 tell you about herself. then once u have talked a little bit and can gauge her interest, see if she seems interested, if so, get her number then ask her out over the phone. its seems kinda weird 2 ask a girl out and u dont even have her phone number. just popping into work and askeing her out says STALKER!! lol good luck!

oh and make sure 2 pick her up in the Celica, that will seal the deal!!!

This post has been edited by SlickRick: Mar 19, 2007 - 1:49 PM

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just be like.. "i have a 6 gen toyota celica" than her draw will drop, and you'll be like.. "want to see it?" and she'll say yes. If this doesn't happen chances are you shouldn't want to go out with her. lol. jk.

Just be confindent.

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Just be straight forward: "Hey, my names <insert name> and I've noticed you a couple times before, would you like chill sometime?"


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>Just be straight forward: "Hey, my names <insert name> and I've noticed you a couple times before, would you like chill sometime?

good idea, strait to the point but it has a flaw,
its puttin her on the spot, which i'm sure she wudn't like, and most likly she gets embarased and says no...
u wanna be a little more subtle than that,
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>Just be straight forward: "Hey, my names <insert name> and I've noticed you a couple times before, would you like chill sometime?

good idea, strait to the point but it has a flaw,
its puttin her on the spot, which i'm sure she wudn't like, and most likly she gets embarased and says no...
u wanna be a little more subtle than that,


"hi my names <insert name>, ive stalked u a few times from the soda aisle, and i was wondering if i could smell your hair?....No? oh...well, I'll be outside in my van waiting for you to come out later tonight."

LOL

sorry

in response to natalie:

id ask her out on lunch for 2 reasons:

1) it sets the "date" for a short period of time, so if she ends up sucking, u can leave, and if she doesnt dig u, she can leave, and it wont be all like "HOW DO I GET OUT OF THIS!?"

2) if she feels awkward in her work clothing, most likly any dude would feel awkward asking some chick out at her job, so...if u both feel slightly awkward it cant be all that bad...good for a laugh at least.

KawiLove
id still pass on the work lunch. plus if she works at a store she gets 30 mins. i think u need an hour to know if you can get along with someone or not.


Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
use the search function!

search for pick-up lines. there is a bunch of great lines in that thread. =)
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sure fire way of getting girls: be a dick.

oh the ladies must love you then Erik

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what do you mean by a girl in a store- you went to a store and she works there? have you ever actually talked to her? hmm?


Thats the thing...the only communication we had was talking a little while she was ringing me up, did find out we went to the same elementary school. Im not used to asking someone out i don't know at all.

She works at the sunglass hut...if that makes a difference.

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Thats the thing...the only communication we had was talking a little while she was ringing me up, did find out we went to the same elementary school. Im not used to asking someone out i don't know at all.

She works at the sunglass hut...if that makes a difference.


i got it.... you are >>blue>> she is >>pinkish color>>

>>you: "hi....so since when do u work here? Didnt we go to the same elementary school?">>
>>her: "uh...i think we went over this before when u were in here buying sunglasses.">>

if that doesnt break the ice....add:

>>you: "my eyes are sensative...like my heart." (insert smile/your own ha ha thing)>>

^ment to be corney, to break the ice

>>you: "yeah i know that was lame, but i was wondering if ud like to go out sometime?">>

>>DISREGUARD FROM THIS POINT ON...READ ON FOR A LAUGH>>

>>her: "sure....pick me up friday at 11...i get off of work at 9...see u then in your sick whip. By the way, who taught you those fly ass pick up lines?">>
>>You: "dems pick up lines is from dat sick migga devilsden97, on the best celica site on the net....6gc.net.">>

idk what that all is but i found it entertaining


edit: added color coding....and good luck man...seriously tho..you only live once, and its only a chick...whats the worst that could happen? she says no...u tell her her sun glasses suck, and move on. U hardly know her, so its not a HUGE loss.

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KawiLove
Who was the red person^^^ laugh.gif

JDM guy made me do it.
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red was the inner migga coming out... lol

KawiLove
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Thats the thing...the only communication we had was talking a little while she was ringing me up, did find out we went to the same elementary school. Im not used to asking someone out i don't know at all.

She works at the sunglass hut...if that makes a difference.


i got it.... you are >>blue>> she is >>pinkish color>>

>>you: "hi....so since when do u work here? Didnt we go to the same elementary school?">>
>>her: "uh...i think we went over this before when u were in here buying sunglasses.">>

if that doesnt break the ice....add:

>>you: "my eyes are sensative...like my heart." (insert smile/your own ha ha thing)>>

^ment to be corney, to break the ice

>>you: "yeah i know that was lame, but i was wondering if ud like to go out sometime?">>

>>DISREGUARD FROM THIS POINT ON...READ ON FOR A LAUGH>>

>>her: "sure....pick me up friday at 11...i get off of work at 9...see u then in your sick whip. By the way, who taught you those fly ass pick up lines?">>
>>You: "dems pick up lines is from dat sick migga devilsden97, on the best celica site on the net....6gc.net.">>

idk what that all is but i found it entertaining


edit: added color coding....and good luck man...seriously tho..you only live once, and its only a chick...whats the worst that could happen? she says no...u tell her her sun glasses suck, and move on. U hardly know her, so its not a HUGE loss.


I think i might do that...i like the sick whip part the best!!

but please keep the advise coming im open to anything.
You could always use those three special words that gets any womans attention... "I am rich" biggrin.gif

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I think the car will give that away. laugh.gif
"ey yo girl" thats my line, its all about how you voice it though
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go in and say you need her help to pick out sunglasses for someone special. try on a few, have her try on a few, ask her which ones she likes, make her laugh a little... this way you get to spend a bit more time with her than her just cashing you out... then after you buy them give them to her.

now you have options from there, you can either ask her out right then or be really mysterious about it and just leave lol

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Damn, Cireno [MSP] over here. Nice one Hurley.
Its real simple... first get yourself some rope, chloroform and a motel where they dont ask questions.... oh wait.. nevermind..... forget that...

If you want to get to know this girl, but are affraid of making her uncomfortable, dont ask her out on a date. Invite her to a party, or some other social gathering... just pop in and say.. " hey... remember me.. :-), some frineds are having a party this friday and I'd like to invite you. Give her the time and address, and your cell number ( in case she gets lost)

(She may have a boyfriend, and will want to bring him along, dont be a dick, and let her bring him)

(If no boyfriend then)

If she shows, theres 1 point for you.... the only risk you run, is her hookin up with someone else.... but hey, if that happens, then she wasnt into you anyway.
At least there will be other girls at the party for you to talk to as well.

Hopefully, by the end of the night, everyone had a good time, and no one feels awkward.

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I have to say i like Steff's idea, its pretty cool.

KawiLove