no im not drunk =p i just went to a bbq today for 4th of july and came home and im hella depressed, this happens to me randomly but lately its been happening more frequently like 3 times within the last couple months. i dont feel like doing anything except sitting here thinking of how terrible everything is. i hate it

I feel that way sometimes too. You've just got to get out and do stuff. I pretty much left everything behind when I moved to a different country (not that I'm not used to it). Go on a road trip with either yourself, or like 1/2 other people and clear your head.

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He means one or two other people, not half a person. That **** will get you arrested.

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lol exactly!

the thing about depression is, there is no cause to why it happens and there is no solution on how to cure it as well. this is a Anomaly basically,

Masturbate. I think that works for some people.

OR you can go drive your celica.

OR you can watch the news and think about how lucky you are
that you live in a country where you can think for yourself, act for yourself,
and laugh at your dumb president.

This post has been edited by cHinaman727: Jul 5, 2007 - 9:20 AM

a) wtf to that response...^^

b) prozac will work wonders it makes sad people happy

This post has been edited by playr158: Jul 5, 2007 - 1:56 PM

Depression is like a snow ball going down hill, if you don't take care of it, is just gonna get worst, most people experience depression when they experience changes on their lifes ( loss of a relative, moving , and environmental changes like from high school to college or from your long term job to a new job ) different people react different to changes, some people may see a new job as a fresh start while some others may start wondering, how good am i gonna be at this ? do these people like me ? am I gonna to like it ? will I learn fast enough ? ; that's why when you feel you're depressed the best thing to do ask yourself why ? there is always a reason, even we know it or not , sometimes the reason why we are depreseed looks to be so silly that we ignore it, but is still there. If you realize why you're depressed then you're 1/2 way out of depression, because that's the hardest part.

When depression is treat it on time usually doesn't need medication.

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not always true. sometimes it harms you more than it helps when you realize how much stuff or what is really making you depressed.

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sometimes hurts, true but remember you can't fix something if you don't know what's the problem, even if it hurts is a needed step in order to get out of depression, think about it, when people go to a psychologist, what do they do ? the patient get to answer a lot of questions so the psychologist can determine what's making you depressed, and then he talks to such patient about it, the idea behind it is to get the patient used to the idea of talking about issues, once a patient start talking regularly about what worries him/her the job for the psychologist is to get the patient to learn how to identify issues and how to solve them, that's when questions like what would you do if .... ? would you.. ? what do you think of.. ? become handy. identifying a problem and learning how to make your way out of them is the key for not getting on depression.

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You ever listen to Love Line on Kroq? Dr. Drew answers these types of questions all the time. I know you might not get it over the radio but you can listen at www.kroq.com at 10pm and call in if you have any questions like this, they might be able to help you

This post has been edited by eggman40: Jul 5, 2007 - 10:34 PM

come chill with me

I <3 loveline

I cant listen to a lady with a little girls voice without wanting to ask "What happened to you when you were little?"

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Thats cool, you listen online? or on satelite radio

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They have it from 10pm - 1am here in Seattle area on 107.7

So i usually switch between that and Leykis

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no it doesn't. depression medications are like a band aid. if you remove them the depression is still there. it doesn't fix anything. they make you numb to your feelings. believe me. i know.

and there is big difference between someone who is depressed about something and someone who has a chemical imbalance. Not the same thing at all.

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You likely suffer from the same "condition" as I. "Bi-polar Depressive." No it doesn't mean you have two personality or are crazy. It just means random junk will trigger your depression. Could out some online tests to see if this is you.

If it is, stay away from the drug effextor. It'll highly addictive and doctors love to prescribe it due to its productivity

I use to get that kind of flash depession for no real rason thing ever so often few times a month or weekly, could not really exsplane it, but since I got out of my parents house, and into my g/f I feel way less restricted (not like rules but just more independent) depression flashes are few and far between or int { me = > me = }

key thing is that you understand that there is no real (real being used relitivly, there are real reasons for it of bad things\events in life that cuase it) reason for it and that it happens and passes.

I have a strong need to be needed and usefull so it helps and makes me feel really good when people ask me for help or I'm needed in some way, I think my current home and the people in it have a need for me (help etc) so it keeps me happy, my parents never really needed me for help etc and I dont have a lot of friends so it limited that drive I had causing me to feel more usless hence more depression.

so for

int { me;

cout{"way to show how stuff affects me in c++ \n";
get.();

if { me = needed;
then { me = ;
else if { me = loved;
then { me = ;
else { me = ;

}

you just have to figure out what it is you need to feel good and persue it, (its not going to be physicl things or sex its going to be something that drives you to do more.

also

int { you;

cout{"way to show affects on you in c++ \n";
get.();

if { you + drugs;
if for { shorttime;
then { you = ;
else { you = ;
then if { you - drugs ;
then { you = ;
}

This post has been edited by creis: Jul 11, 2007 - 5:32 AM

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I don't agree. I've been an active user for sometime and never expirenced that

what the depression mathematics...

i was thinking the same thing.

I also don't think it's healthy AT ALL to only feel happy when you are needed by someone.
what happens if the g/f leaves? you can't be happy until you find someone else to need you?
I'm sorry but i think that is crazy.
You should be happy with yourself not happy with yourself only under certain conditions.

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lol hes writing his 'expressions' in c++

what happens when your depressed and are only use to being depressed, then it isnt depressing anymore, its normal. and feeling normal is feeling happy. then i guess being depressed wouldnt be an issue.

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not what I was saying. the issue is with feeling depressed on rare occations not in general, my example is that I use to go into a depressed mod every so often and that with the change it does not happen any more. (use to generaly be happy with myself outside of thoes occations) i left out that I generaly feel fine about my self but things / events can trigger depression. I was kinda staying right on topic and left out some things, I deff don't just feel happy when needed etc. but that helps me stay happy.

So what I'm trying to say is that a good way to not slide into depressed mods is to surrond yourself with the things you need to feel happy (things not being physical but anything including love and being needed) simple way to say it is if when you get depressed you feel stupid or usleeess, find something that makes you feel smart or usefull that you trust. so counter it.

I dont have the best skill at saying exactly what I mean.

This post has been edited by creis: Jul 12, 2007 - 12:11 AM