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Topic #45958 45 posts Started by BlackCelicaGT94
BlackCelicaGT94
#1
My friend asked me a question today and thought id ask you guys waht you thought cuz i have my feelings but sometimes mine differ completely from tohers.


What would you guys think if ur boyfriend or girlfriend said "hey imma go move in with my best guy or girl friend"? theyve had a flirty relationship but both sides say nothing has ever happened out of all the years youve known them. Would you be ok with it?

I dont think i would be. Drunken nights happen. Im not very trustworthy of people so id be like uhh why cant u move in with the same sex. but then theres a problem when u get some dudes in an apartment cuz then they bring over chicks and party.

So anyways she said shes not sure how she feels about it. I told her to just see how it goes for a few months and if you feel that somethings not right hten get the F out. :-)
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STtoS4
#3
Hahah we had this dicussion on the audi forums like a month ago.... haha its just turned into war. hahah
But roll with it as for me i wouldnt let it happen.
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Valo666
#4
Id b ok with it because my gf's best friend is gay..lol
BlackCelicaGT94
#5
lol ok would u be ok with it if her best friend wasnt gay?


and how would u approach him and her to tell them that ur not ok with it.
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Negative
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Id b ok with it because my gf's best friend is gay..lol


That means nothing. Don't be fooled by that old game.
Valo666
#7
I would probably be ok with it because they were friends since they were like 2..and as for approaching him..i would just tell him straight up im not cool with it. But also my gfs dad is very very catholic and is against the whole "girls and boys living together" thing. He says that she should wait untill shes married b4 she moves in with a guy *whoops*, lol, but i mean i had to fight for her moving in with me next year and i had to have pretty much a 6 hour long talk with him to convince him that its gonna b ok and hes still not 100% ok with it. So i dunno..it would probably b ok with it mainly cuz i doubt it would happen..lol

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Id b ok with it because my gf's best friend is gay..lol


That means nothing. Don't be fooled by that old game.


.....ive seen him make out with other guys and the guy wears pink t-shirts that has all of the disney princesses on it lol. trust me..i dont think hes been pretending to be attracted to other men, making out with them, going further than that, just to move in with my girl friend hypatheicaly.
3WayStunna
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well, since my ex significant other has left me for her "best friend" ever since i got deployed, i think that ummm, HELL NO.....its a stupid move to let your sig. other move in with their opposite sex friend.....anywho, just my 2 cents....
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Rayme
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> Fcuk that.
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dustin15brown
#10
being as that my best friend is a female.... I have no problem with it... As long as I know the person, and trust them, it's all good with me... Because I would be pissed if I had a girl and she flipped because i was living with a girl
Jen
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Nope, no, no no no no.. I'd flip the fk out.
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ra65_22re
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well, since my ex significant other has left me for her "best friend" ever since i got deployed, i think that ummm, HELL NO.....its a stupid move to let your sig. other move in with their opposite sex friend.....anywho, just my 2 cents....

thats suks...

i would have to say no cuz i pretty much had sex wit all my friends that are girls so yea. im a bastard i know... what can i say i like to cuddle wink.gif ol
Bigmeanbulldog55
#13
I'm the jealous type. I don't even like my gf having guy friends. It's something we have an understanding about. She knows that I'm super jealous but that same side of me is protective and aggressive in a good way.
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jdg371
#14
no. sh*t WILL happen...

there will always be the "what you don't know....."
CelicaBuddy
#15
I know I wouldnt be too thrilled about it thats for sure... kindasad.gif

The only way I'd be able to sleep at night and not worry about anything is if I knew the person personally and could trust them... But even then, I'd still worry...
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ILuvMyCelica95
#16
no way. I'd kill her smile.gif

If my man is living with anyone of the opposite sex its going to be me.

This works both ways of course. I would never do that to him.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Mar 5, 2007 - 10:54 PM
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forkee
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well, since my ex significant other has left me for her "best friend" ever since i got deployed, i think that ummm, HELL NO.....its a stupid move to let your sig. other move in with their opposite sex friend.....anywho, just my 2 cents....

thats suks...

i would have to say no cuz i pretty much had sex wit all my friends that are girls so yea. im a bastard i know... what can i say i like to cuddle wink.gif ol


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sorry to say but what else is there to do at home when theres nothing else to do but do a little exploration. it doesnt matter if your significant other is an abstinence preaching monk. everybody pushes that button that says "don't push". its only human nature.
jayi12-15psi
#18
ok... if I was living with my best female friend while going out with my g/f it would feel like this everynight....

internal monologue

"Oh man, I really want some booty right now"
"maybe I should call my g/f?"
"nah, she's busy or something"
"well... there is some vag on the other side of this wall....."
"oh man, I can't do that!!!"
"why not? yes you can it wont be weird or anything, go get some"
"well... I guess I have no choice."
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FreddyTheOthaMea...
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Uh for me, if theres not enough trust for your loved one to be around the opposite sex without them doin it, then there probably isnt much of a relationship to begin with... my 2 cents
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BlackCelicaGT94
#20
The only thing I can relate it to is that Ive known Coomer for 3 years now and id say hes a pretty good friend of mine. Weve never even hugged and so I can pretty much 99.99999 percent gurantee nothing would ever ever ever happen between us. that .00001 percent is incase were the only people alive someday and we had to start a new world or something. lol

so if i was in the situation i could be trusted with my best guy friend. idk.

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ILuvMyCelica95
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Uh for me, if theres not enough trust for your loved one to be around the opposite sex without them doin it, then there probably isnt much of a relationship to begin with... my 2 cents


It's not only if you trust them, you have to also trust the person they are living with. I trust my boyfriend, I dont trust other women.

I have a very close guy friend who i basically lived with in college but i wasn't dating someone at the time. Idk it makes it different.

This post has been edited by ILuvMyCelica95: Mar 6, 2007 - 11:38 AM
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Rayme
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Its not about trust, its just a very un-easy situation. I totally trust my GF and she asked me the same about it, to move with a co-worker, as it would be better for her financial situation. But I totally didn't like the idea at all, but would had agreed if it was temporary. Guys are guys, period. I wouldn't like everyone to see my GF runnin' around half naked at bed time, and you can just imagine the other bad stuff.

It’s more about avoidance, and in some level jealousy (Why is my GF moving in with that guy and not ME?), Its a feeling you will get even if its impossible for her to move with you.
-Rémy02SiR, 08250R
6gcSTVT
#23
If my or anyones gf is ever going to live with a guy it better be thier bf and no one else...even if her parents are catholic...shes going to be living with a guy friend, she might as well be living with you.
Darin H.
Bigmeanbulldog55
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The only thing I can relate it to is that Ive known Coomer for 3 years now and id say hes a pretty good friend of mine. Weve never even hugged and so I can pretty much 99.99999 percent gurantee nothing would ever ever ever happen between us. that .00001 percent is incase were the only people alive someday and we had to start a new world or something. lol

so if i was in the situation i could be trusted with my best guy friend. idk.

lol. Girls, you are all so naive. It's not a bad thing. It keeps you innocent and cute acting. It’s simple psychology based on the Mere Expose Effect and Emotional Misunderstanding. We will like what we are around all the time, that’s why work place romances are common, or crushes on co-workers. Emotional Misunderstanding is also common. Fear and excitement, anger and sadness, love and hate are all emotions that are commonly misunderstood by people. It’s a pretty neat principle really. It can be the art of manipulation in the wrong hands. I must confess, I have done this myself. I’ve misused signals and cues to achieve goals, but they were for the better good of all people evolved. It was the first time I felt manipulation could be used in a positive way.
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BlackCelicaGT94
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im naive cuz i know coomer and i would never ever hook up?

i dont get what ur saying lol
Cruisin down the street in my Infiniti...always lookin for my next trip to Sin City
jayi12-15psi
#26
you make it sound like coomer's disgusting or something...
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Bigmeanbulldog55
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im naive cuz i know coomer and i would never ever hook up?

i dont get what ur saying lol

Yes, exactly. You not understanding, or refusing to understand, proves my point. At least to me it does. I have a funny way of looking at and setting things up, so it could just be really confusing. I shouldn't discriminate to only women though. People in general are naive of their own emotions and tendencies. I just like to pick on women, cause I'm a sexest a-hole.
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BlackCelicaGT94
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you make it sound like coomer's disgusting or something...


Coomer is not disgusting by any means. hes very very good looking. just theres no chemistry between us at all. i have lots of friends who want coomer lol. so yeah i dont mean to make him sound ugly at all! lol


anyways hmm ok im still naive. lol
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jayi12-15psi
#29
if my g/f moved in with anyone of the opposite sex, I would be forced to poop on her to end the relation****
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celiracer
#30
If my g/f wanted to move in with oposite sex it would be choose me or move there. Because there is no way i would let my g/f move in with another guy even if they were best friends thats just not right. If the guy/girl wants to move in with opposite sex when they are dating someone then obviously there is somthing between them. I mean wouldn't you wanna move in with your g/f or b/f instead of them moving in with there oposite sex best friend?
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